Warnings Signs Your Child Is Being Bullied
School has officially started. For many parents and students, it can be a stressful time with many changes: new teachers, new students, new subjects to learn, etc.
When your child is in a new environment and around new people, there might be an adjustment period. You might see a shift in behaviors and moods as your child tackles these changes. But if you start to see drastic changes in temperament and personality, there could be a bigger reason at play.
Here are some signs of bullying to be aware of:
Unexplainable injuries (scratches, bruises, cuts): When asked about these injuries, they might look ashamed or visibly upset even though they have 'forgotten' what caused the injuries.
Changes in morning routines: a drastic change in how the child gets ready for school might be an indicator. If your child is usually excited about school and is now consistently worried or anxious.
Destroyed or missing belongings: Clothes, books, and any owned items that might disappear or come back broken without cause given.
Attitude change toward school: If you start to notice declining grades or apathetic interest in classwork.
An increase in feeling sick: Children can manifest their emotions physically in upset stomachs, headaches or lethargy. Watch for a pattern of increased requests for staying home from school.
Drastic behavior changes: If you start to notice unusual patterns in mood swings or new emotions like aggression, sudden lack of interest in seeing friends, or being withdrawn.
Disruptive sleep: Seeing signs of having a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep or an increase in nightmares.
What to do if you see signs of bullying:
Keep lines of communication open.
Talk to teachers about anything they may have noticed or if there are issues in the classroom.
Reinforce you believe your children and you are there to keep them safe.
If you do suspect your child is being bullied, sometimes discussing what has happened with a professional can be a great way to process the event. We’re always here when you need us. You can schedule an appointment with one of our therapists.
